I just had a nice long conversation with an older gentleman I met this afternoon at Paradise Cafe in Greenwood, In.
I was walking back to my table from getting a refill of sweet tea, and heard a voice behind me say, “I like your shirt.” He had noticed my Jesus Loves Greenwood t-shirt that was from a sermon series at my church earlier this year.
I was about to reply, “Thanks!” and walk back to my table, but then he wanted to know which church I attended. When I told him Greenwood Christian Church, he knew exactly which church I was referring to and asked, “do they still play volleyball there”? Well since I play volleyball there every Wednesday night (except for the weeks I’m playing in the worship team) I of course had to say yes.
That answer sparked a conversation that lasted nearly an hour…
At first I was kind of annoyed because this guy I didn’t know was talking to me about random stuff, when all I wanted to do was finish my lunch. And boy could he talk. I was standing there with my sweet tea in hand and glancing over at the table where my California Turkey sandwich with avocado (I’m from San Diego, you can’t forget the avocado) was sitting just waiting to be devoured.
And while he was talking, the whole time I was thinking of a way to end the conversation. But how? Do I interrupt the guy and say, “it was nice talking to you”, and just walk back to my table? I couldn’t do that.
But then he started talking about the love of Jesus, and it was just as if God had smacked me in the back of my head and said “listen to him”! And it dawned on me I was wearing a shirt that said “Jesus Loves Greenwood” on it, but I wasn’t displaying the love of Jesus through my thoughts.
It was clear that all this guy really wanted was someone to talk to him about the Love of Jesus, so taking a sip of my tea, that’s what I did…
We talked about how he used to play volleyball at GCC, and asked if I knew other people who he used to play with and if they still played there. We also talked about worship music and about different Christian bands out there. But what I remember the most is how his face lit up when he talked about the love of Jesus and the grace of God in his own life.
He also told me that although he had been a believer for most of his life, he had never really got plugged into a church. He would just church hop from time to time, but couldn’t seem to make a connection.
I could really relate to him at that moment. Since I’m new to Greenwood Christian Church, and even though I got involved in the worship ministry almost from the time I first started attending, I really haven’t built any real relationships yet. It’s hard to be in a place where you don’t know anyone and try to fit in. So I can definitely understand where he’s coming from. It’s easy to get lost in the mix at churches the size of GCC who has almost 2000 members.
So God presented me the opportunity to invite him to church, and by the end of our conversation he said he would try to come next Sunday. If he really will, I don’t know, but at least this way he has an invitation and will know at least one person that goes there.
I’m reminded of numerous times in the past when I had opportunities just to sit down with people I didn’t know and simply share the Gospel with them or invite them to church but failed to take the time to do so because of other things I “had to do”. How easy it is to get our priorities mixed up.
Jesus, when asked what the greatest commandment was, replied:
“Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength. The second is this: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ There is no commandment greater than these.”
Mark 12:30-31
Jesus knew how to love. And he practiced it with his life, and even more so when he laid down his life. Sometimes I wonder why it’s so hard to share the love of Jesus with others. I sometimes think because His love is so sweet, that we just want to keep it all to ourselves, but like the lyrics of a song that Michael W. Smith wrote years ago: “Love isn’t love till you give it away”.
Love is meant to be shared with others, and in this case, love was just being a listening ear.
When I finally allowed myself to listen, it was evident that this man, who God put in my life today, just needed someone to talk to. But, looking back, I now wonder if it was really so much him who was in need or if it was I who needed to be convicted, so I could realize that I need to learn to be more loving of my neighbors but more importantly to share the love of Jesus.
I never know what God is going to bring my way, but all I can say is I better be ready when it gets here…
My Prayer:
Lord Jesus,
Thank you for being the ultimate example of what love is. Help me to be more loving of the people around me, and make the most of every opportunity to share it with others, so they can see your love and partake in it.
In Jesus’ Name I pray. Amen!





“To him who is able to keep you from falling and to present you before his glorious presence without fault and with great joy—” Jude 24